Dating someone with issues
Anytime the women I dated talked about making us “official,” I told them I didn’t believe in titles and that being official was silly.I did believe in titles; I was just too afraid to give us one.
It may have something to do with the biological clock, or come down to the old saying "a problem shared is a problem halved."Women speak an average of 20,000 words per day, whereas men speak an average of 7,000 words per day.
Women naturally have the ability to process emotional things easier than men — we are wired differently.
If you're dating a man with trust issues, he is easily wary about dating women because of his experience. He'll be full of insecurities and he may show you some behavior that may be hard for you to understand, particularly by being "hot and cold."Don't take it personally.
Although his personal ego is his own issue, there are some things that you can help in improving his self-worth.
Make him realize that the fault doesn't lie with him.